The public moments of our marriage shown over a period of months seemed like a short time, but the truth is this fairy-tale started three years ago. This process was no overnight success and love between us didn't work that way. This process wasn't a fast-food recipe; this was a crock pot, slow it down, take your time, watch it and let it marinate type of friendship that turned into a relationship and then a marriage. Three Years When we first met, there was an attraction,